Monday, January 11, 2010

Happiness Can Be Obtained Basically on Ourselves

Would you believe that our happiness can be obtained basically on ourselves? For me, I think so. I am touching this topic because it is mostly misunderstood as to what I observed. They (I am pointing out on mostly to what I heard) are telling that they are only happy if other person (special person, perhaps love/lover of life) is happy.? I have to say that it's their own choice of letting themselves sacrificed in order for other person to be happy. Well, basically the subject has a share too! So basically, the sacrifice was obtained by themselves. And so, it has been said that she's also happy on it, right? The point is you cannot find happiness on other person, place, or whatsoever, it is on your/ourselves. How we cope-up when everything seems not going well and stand back. We just have to dig-in what really matters for it. How and what does make us happy and we'll have to go for it, right? The thing is, we just have to make it rightfully or else the happiness will just be of short time. Well short-time happiness, that is. The ratio makes as: long is to long, and short is to short. So which is which? Which do you prefer? Whatever it is, carry on the positive side and make our gift of choice sensible. To sum it up, dig-in how and what makes us happy and savor the moment while we are here (in this world)... be responsible on the consequences of our actions and that's it! It is as easy and as hard as that... :-)



analou said...

Yeh it is true but it is so hard to do it especially if you where being taught to think and should help other people as much as you can. It is hard to be happy when the people around you are not. My hubby told me the same way that I make my own happiness. It's my choice but it just getting harder and harder especially almost everytime when I open my friendster and received a bunch of messages that's all about Haaaaaayyyy. That's why I am about to switch off my friendster profile because I am sick of all this messages. Share nako pod sa akong pagmahay Beck..Thanks for sharing this my friend. It is really very interesting.

Cacai M. said...

hehehe.. na mao baje.. kaya mo 'yan.. I know.. sometimes it's like that but remember we have our lives also, perhaps that makes you happy baje helping others.. but how much is too much?... online diay ka baje.. I'll try to call you a bit..

kathy said...

Your right Cai, happiness depends on us. It is a matter of choice but, I also learned that happiness could also come from your kids... Dli pa kau ka ka-relate kay kamulo pa man mo'g himo.. hehehhe...

Pero kailangan jud nga malipay ta because we chose to be happy, not to base our happiness on other people's happiness..

Sensya na wla ko ghapon sis kay day-off nako'g Sunday.. ehehhe..


Cacai M. said...

Ooh well, I guess your kids are a part of you when they're below 18 years old and still a bit part after such age but anyway I understand what's your point sis.. go go go ka lang dyan.. and I understand sis sa mga dayoff galore on weekends.. ako pod dayoff ko weekends.. pero sahay mka-pc gihapon.. heheh.. thanks for the share sis.. mga gwapa imo mga kiddos.. liwat jud sa nagligwat.. :-) hugs and kisses..



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